Barbara M Wakeley (O'Brien), affectionately known as Bubba to her beloved grandchildren, passed away peacefully on April 24, 2025. She was 88 years old. Born on September 3, 1936, in West Philadelphia, to Fred and Helen (Doyle) O'Brien. Beloved sister of Fred Jr., Jack, and Robert.
Barbara met the love of her life, “My Bobby” while still in high school, at West Catholic Girls School. She asked him to the prom, and they never looked back. They were married on September 15th, 1956, and began their beautiful life together. They enjoyed dining out with friends and spending weekends down the shore, at their second home in Anglesea, NJ. Barbara and Robert had two boys, Bobby and Chris. Family was the cornerstone of Barbara's life. After raising her family, she rejoined the workforce as a receptionist at Saul Ewing Law Office in Center City. After retirement, she spent time doing the things she loved. She traveled to Thailand with her sister-in laws, Pat and Marie, and her brother Bob. She spent quality time with her two boys and watched her grandchildren grow up, she enjoyed getting her hair done and going out to lunch, with some wine of course. She could always be found basking in the sun or reading a good murder mystery. In her last four years, she lived in her lovely apartment at Rose Tree Place, where she was surrounded by new friends and caring staff.
Remaining to cherish Barbara’s memory are her sons and daughters-in-law, Robert Wakeley Jr. (Teresa Wakeley) and Christopher Wakeley (Jan Wakeley). Her grandchildren, Maxwell Wakeley, Shawn Wakeley, and Lila Wakeley. Her beloved sisters-in-law, Marie O'Brien, Pat O'Brien, Betty Wakeley, Joan Wakeley, and Eileen Wakeley. Her dear nephew, Kevin O'Brien. She was preceded in death by her adoring husband, the late Robert Wakeley Sr., her brothers, Fred, Jr. O'Brien, Jack O'Brien, and Robert O'Brien and her nieces, Helene (O'Brien) Halligan and Karen O'Brien.
Barbara's zest for life extended far beyond her immediate family. She was a strong, passionate woman. She was not only known as the Matriarch of her own family but was also seen by many friends and extended family as a mother figure. Her dazzling bright blue eyes and stylish, classy demeanor were her trademarks, along with her infamous sayings, making her a memorable character for anyone who had the pleasure of meeting her. She was an animated storyteller and the life of every party with her quick-witted remarks, always ensuring that laughter was part of any occasion.
Barbara was the embodiment of love, humor, and spirit. She had the unique ability to make everyone feel seen and feel lucky to have known her. Barbara's loving nature and sassy spirit will be deeply missed by all who had the pleasure of meeting her. Her legacy lives on through her family and friends.
Relatives and friends are invited to Barbara’s Life Celebration on Friday, May 16th, 2025. The visitation will be held from 9:00 AM to 10:15 AM at Logan-Videon Funeral Home, 2001 Sproul Road, Broomall, PA 19008. A Funeral Mass will be held at 11:00AM at Saint Andrew the Apostle Church, 3500 School Lane, Drexel Hill, PA 19026.